How to Choose the Perfect First Dance Song for Your NZ Weddingost

Your first dance is one of the most unforgettable moments of your wedding day – just you, your partner, and a room full of smiling guests watching as you share the spotlight. At New Zealand DJ Collective, we know this song choice can feel like a big decision. The right track will set the tone for your evening, reflect your personalities, and make for magical photos and videos you’ll treasure forever.

Here’s our expert guide to help Kiwi couples choose the perfect first dance song for their New Zealand wedding.

1. Pick a Song That Feels Like You

Your first dance should tell your love story. Think about the music that has meaning for you as a couple – maybe it’s the track that was playing when you met, a song from your first road trip, or an artist you both adore.
Pro Tip: Don’t just go with what’s trending. A timeless choice will still feel special on your 10th anniversary.

 
2. Consider the Dance Style

Different songs suit different vibes:

Slow & Romantic – Perfect for a traditional slow sway, allowing you to soak in the moment.
Upbeat & Fun – If you want to kick off the dance floor energy, choose a faster track or even a mashup.
Acoustic & Intimate – Creates a warm, emotional moment for smaller weddings.
Your DJ can also create a custom edit of your song to keep it within 2–3 minutes – just the right length to keep guests engaged.

 
3. Think About the Lyrics

Lyrics can make or break the moment. Be sure your chosen track sends the message you want – romantic, hopeful, and personal. Your DJ can recommend radio edits or acoustic versions if you love the melody but want cleaner or more wedding-appropriate lyrics.

 
4. Match the Song to Your Venue & Atmosphere

A grand ballroom might suit a classic ballad like Etta James’ “At Last”, while an outdoor vineyard wedding in Hawke’s Bay might feel more natural with an acoustic love song by a Kiwi artist. At New Zealand DJ Collective, we can adjust your track to suit your venue’s acoustics so the moment sounds as good as it feels.

 
5. Don’t Be Afraid of Unique Choices

You don’t have to stick to romantic ballads – we’ve seen amazing first dances to indie tracks, movie soundtracks, and even remixed 80s hits. What matters most is that it feels authentic to you as a couple.

 
6. Work with Your DJ to Perfect the Moment

When you book with New Zealand DJ Collective, we’ll:

- Help shortlist songs based on your taste.
- Create custom edits for timing and flow.
- Provide a high-quality sound system so every lyric is crystal clear.
- Coordinate with your photographer so they capture every perfect moment.
 
Popular First Dance Songs for NZ Weddings

Here are some favourites Kiwi couples love:

“Perfect” – Ed Sheeran
“Stand by Me” – Ben E. King
“Can’t Help Falling in Love” – Kina Grannis (acoustic)
“Lover” – Taylor Swift (First Dance Remix)
“Something in the Water” – Brooke Fraser
 
💍 Ready to make your first dance unforgettable?

Book your wedding DJ with New Zealand DJ Collective today and let us help you choose, mix, and play the perfect first dance song for your big day.

📞 Contact us now to start planning your wedding soundtrack.